What are we actually loosing in this process?
What might we lose in this process?
What is the hardest thing to let go of? Do you have to let go of it?
What pieces of the past can we take with us?
What is there to be gained?
Where are we going and is it somewhere I want to go?
Who is affected by this shift? How are they affected? How am I affected?
If we ask these questions, what sort of conversations might we have? Are they potentially more productive? At the very least, it is helpful to remember that resistance to change is sometimes about loss.